Sibling Classes - Tundraco's Daily Living Guide to Raising Kids

Often you will find these courses listed in conjunction with the parenting classes and they go by a variety of names including Big Brother/Big Sister classes, as well as Sibling Preparation.

What is Taught at in a Siblings Class?

3-5 age group - in this range, the children are mostly taught what to expect when the baby arrives.
6 and up - depending upon the maturity level of the students, they are taught everything from how to hold a baby to basic babysitting skills.
For those participating in the actual birth - some families want to have the older siblings attend the actual delivery. In such circumstances, they will receive special training and preparation that will prepare them for what will happen during the actual birth. They will also be shown how they can help during the delivery.

Methodology

'New born' dolls are used to familiarize the children with handling an infant

Books, films, and other media sources are used to educate the children and to initiate discussions on various topics.

Tours may be given of the hospital or birthing facility.

Sibling classes also teach 'the basics'

What infants can and cannot do?
What you (the sibling) can and cannot do with the new baby?
How to diaper a baby?
How to hold a baby?

The idea behind these classes is to help minimize the amount of jealousy that the 'older' sibling feels toward the new family member.

Are these classes necessary?

No, these classes are not necessary. However, they can be helpful in alleviating many of your child's concerns about the new arrival. Children, especially young ones, may have unrealistic expectations or fears concerning the new baby. By attending these classes, they may find it easier to express these concerns. Once expressed, it will be easier to alleviate them.

Many children are excited and look forward to the arrival of their new brother or sister. Having the opportunity to learn more about the birthing process and how they can assist 'mom' after the birth not only makes them feel more apart of the pregnancy, but it also reassures them that they are not going to be cast aside once the baby comes.

In addition, learning how they can help out with the baby is an empowering experience for many children, giving them a sense of pride and satisfaction in the knowledge that they are going to be a BIG brother or sister!

Home Schooling - Sibling Preparation

While formal sibling classes are not necessary, you should take the time to ease your child's transition into being an older brother or sister. If your child is exhibiting intense anger or jealousy, concerning the pending birth, you may want to consider taking them to see a counselor.

In an age appropriate manner, explain the birthing process and answer every question that your child has - in an honest and medically correct manner.
Give the child an opportunity to help out, before the baby is born. Try to make them feel as if they have a say, and that they are an integral part of the planning process, for the new baby. This can range from letting them pick out some toys for the new baby to, if you're very brave, letting them pick out the name.
Your goal should be to foster the image that they are a big brother or sister and that although the new role may entail new duties, it also comes with new perks, such as having someone look up to them.
Once the baby is born, be sure to allow the new big brother or sister to help take care of the little one. Little things, like simply helping holding the bottle can help them bond with their new sibling and give them a real sense of responsibility and pride toward the new baby.

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Always consult your doctor for medical advice.

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